Which Candles to Blow?

I think its a universal issue for women and men of all ages to feel the big 3 (or 4 or 5 and so on). I'm few more years down that road but my sisters, brothers and husband become quite sensitive when their birthdays nears.


I found these candles at Aksara and having a dilemma which to buy, I bought 2. In hopes of wanting happy birthdays for my brother and sister-in-law this month, I'm wondering which candles to stick on their birthday cakes without having the reverse effect of 'how-could-you-do-this-to-me' sour mood.

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